Faith to Move a Mountain

In November of 2011, I started this blog as a sort of journal to chronicle the events of our son Quinton's adoption. Quinton is a little boy who was born with an extra special something. Quinton has down syndrome and was given up at birth by his parents because he has down syndrome. His birth parents must not have had any idea what a blessing he would be or I am sure they would not have given him up. Unfortunately in Eastern Europe (Quinton is from Ukraine) people with disabilities are not accepted in society and at the age of 4-6, they are sent to adult mental institutions where most of them die :( Although it breaks my heart that his parents have missed out on such a joyful little boy, God has used this unfortunate situation to bless us with a gift greater than I could have ever imagined: the gift of our first child. If you ever considered adoption-do it! Don't let money deter you. God provided over $20,000 for us to adopt Quinton. We were not fully funded until 50 minutes before we boarded our plane to Ukraine. If you have never considered adoption, go back to the beginning of this blog and read. You will see what a blessing adoption really is. Many people tell us that we are angels for rescuing Quinton, but the honest truth is this: Quinton has given me far more that I will ever be able to give him. He is my little miracle, my silly bug, my baby boy, my love. HE IS MY LIFE!

Monday, June 13, 2011

We Made It!

We made it safe and sound. We are in the capital city of the country that I cannot name and will most likely be here until Thursday, at which point we will take a train to Quinton's region. If all goes according to plans we should be able to meet him on Friday!

We have learned so much already, but some things will have to wait for a post when I return home, but here are just a few things:
1. Just because there are 1,000 people in McDonalds does not mean that they employees will stop mopping...who cares if someone falls and breaks their back?
2. There is really no such thing as personal space. I don't speak Russian or Ukranian, but apparently it is not customary to say excuse me when you bump into someone.
3. If you ask someone where the bathroom is in english, they will laugh at you. No-really they will, but the truth is that it is very scary being a foreigner in a country where no one can understand a word you say.
4. We are blessed beyond words. The Lord has been amazing! He has perfect timing and provided for us every step of the way.

Only 1week prior to leaving the USA, we were sitll $6500 short. After a fundraiser and 2 very generous donations by family members, we were only short by $3250. Then a young lady in California held a yard sale to benefit  both our adoption and another adopting family. We were down to about $3,000. The night before we were ready to leave, another Reece's Rainbow family sent us an email wanting to share thier blessings and made a sizeable donation as well. I should point out that we have never even met these people before. We only know each other through emails and blogs and Reece's Rainbow. So, we were only down to needing $1,000 to be fully funded. We had accepeted a gracious loan from a family member to cover the remaining needs. I kid you not-50 minutes before we were to board the plane, a very special friend called and told me that she and her husband really felt that the Lord had called them to bless us and cover our remaining needs! 50 minutes until we left! God is so good. Oh, and I almost forgot, another sweet, sweet couple at our church sent us off with $100 and said they wanted us to have a little something extra. Thanks you them, we are going to meet some other adopting famililes in the capital tonight for dinner at TGIFridays! They have American menus and English speaking waiters. Yay!

There are so many people who have given sacrificially and our church, friends, and family have held us up in prayer. We cannot thank you all enough. Keep the prayers coming. We have had a nice ease into the culture here. We are in an apartment with internet, hot running water, an oven, and a television. We were met at the airport by Niko who stayed with us the majority of the day yesterday to show us our apartment and take us shopping. It was nice to have someone here to help us out. Pretty soon we will be traveling to Quinton's region and after the first meeting with the orphanage director, we are pretty much on our own and will have to rely heavily on charades to get us what we need.



This is the view from our porch/balcony thingy


I will leave you guys with a couple of "cultural" experiences we have had thus far:

1) How to make instant oatmeal without a microwave: Ok, you really don't think about modern conveniences at home until you don't have them. We woke up this morning and decided to have oatmeal (for Brian) and grits (for me) for breakfast. Well, the stove is a gas stove and you have to light it to get it started. Brian happened to have a zippo lighter with him so he lit the stove. We are not supposed to drink the water here so I was not sure about washing pots with it, but they needed to be washed so I used tap water to wash the pots. Then I boiled bottled water in one of the pots I had just washed and then used that clean and boiled water to wash the pots I would use to cook. I am probably being way over cautious, but I do NOT want any stomach issues while I am here. Back to the story-So, I get the water boiling and I try to move the pot off the burner to add the oatmeal to the hot water and the handles are hot. Guess what? No pot holders :) So I grab some paper towels and bunch them up to protect my hand from the hot handles. Let's just say that I am not used to a gas stove. Yes-I definitely did catch the paper towel on fire! I jumped around and screamed a little before I came to my senses and threw it in the sink and put out the fire. Note to self-turn off the gas burner next time and you can aviod any future fires. A good 30 minutes later, we sat down to our gourmet not-so-instant breakfast. What can I say? We are learning.

2) I did a really, really stupid thing while we were packing for our trip. We were just about packed and just had toiletries left to pack. We were running out of time and space. I knew I was carrying on a book bag as my personal item and I made sure to pack all of my travel stuff in those clear conatiners. I was obviously not thinking when I decided to pack the other tioletries in my carry on duffle bag! I still don't know what I was thinking? So without even thinking about it, I put my bags on the conveyer belt at security and they call for a security check. The guy comes out and takes my bag and as soon as the touches the zipper, I realize what I have done. I packed all the liquids in my carry-on and they have to be checked. We had to board our plane in 30 minutes and it took us at least 45 minutes to get through that line. There was nothing to do except call it a loss. We had to throw out a brand new bottle of shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, and Brian's shaving cream. Not a big deal in the scheme of things. So here comes the cultural part. We go to the market with Niko to get a few things and Brian picks up some shaving cream that looks like the stuff he uses at home. Haha-not so much. He came out of the bathroom this morning after shaving and I could not stop laughing. He said his face was freezing like ice and burning like fire all at the same time! It was pretty funny. Things here are not as they appear ;)

If you made it all the way through this post, thank you so much for following along and for surrounding us with your thoughts and prayers. We love and miss you guys!

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Winners!!!

Our final fundraiser ended at 9:00 last night. Some people had a hard time leaving comments on the blog for some reason, so I had a list of people who donated, sent to me. Every person was assigned numbers based on their donation. Here is the list:

Melanie J (#’s 1-11)
Jeff J (#’s 12-22)
Amy A (#’s 23-33)
Angie Mc (#’s 34-44)
Steven B  (#’s 45-55)
Stacie O (#’s 56-67)
Amanda G (#’s 68-78)
Lee Q (#’s 79-89)
Anne Q (#’s 90-100)
Leah H (#’s 101-155)
Whitney Pa (#’s 156-167)
Whitney Pl (#’s 168-173)
Aeryn W (#’s 174)
Tara A (#’s 175-230)
Catie P (#’s 231)
Becca (#’s 232-234)
Traci W (#’s 235)
Cindy B (#’s 236-237)
Julie W (#’s 238-265)
Cheri from RR (#’s 266-276)
Christina S  (#’s 277-282)
Heather S (# 283)
Taylor S (# 284)
Crystal B (#’s 285-295)
Christy B (#’s 296-312)
Ristow family (#’s 313-315)
Wheatons (#’s 316-370)
Matthew M. (#’s 371-426)
Beth H (#’s 427-431)           
Heather M (#’s 432-436)
Debbie K (#’s 437-438)
Shante (#’s 439-445)
Desiree  (#’s 446-450)
Mischel Z (#’s 451-461)

I used random.org to generate 14 winning numbers (I added 3 stationary sets made by Anna Gregg that are not pictured-thanks Anna!) Here are the winning numbers:


For the Target gift card:
#409-Matthew Markland


For the Best Buy gift card:
#226-Tara Austin


For the Father's Day package:
#210-Tara Austin


For the 31 purse/pouch/key ring:
#359-Kathy Wheaton


For the 3 prints:
#134-Leah Hardwick


For a pink baby blanket:
#35-Angie McGee


For the 2nd pink baby blanket:
#311-Christy Brown


For the blue baby blanket:
#186 Tara Austin


For the picnic basket:
#22-Jeff Jarvis


For the Bob Timberlake print:
#202-Tara Austin


For the Pizza Hut coupons:
#325-Kathy Wheaton


For stationary set #1
#165-Whitney Parchment


For stationary set #2:
#145-Leah Hardwick


For stationary set #3:
#332-Kathy Wheaton


Congratulations to all of the winners and a HUGE thank you to everyone who donated! We raised enough for one of our plane tickets back to the United States! You guys are the best! Winners will be contacted via facebook and/or email :)


Oh, and by the way...we leave tomorrow!!!

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Giftcard Giveaway and More! Last Fundraiser Before We Travel!

We travel in 8 days and we are still short about $6500. We have had some items donated to us by friends and family so we are going to try a giveaway to help raise remaining funds. Here's how it works:
Anyone who donates will be entered to win one of the prizes pictured below. The number of entries you receive is based on your donation (see below). You can also earn a free entry for sharing our fundraiser on Facebook, Twitter, or on you blog. To donate, just click on the donate button at the top-right hand side of this page. You must leave me a comment at the end of this blog entry letting me know how many entries you donated for and if you shared on your Facebook, Twitter, or on your blog. Remember that when you donate through Reeces Rainbow, all donations are tax deductible :) The giveaway will end on June 10th at 9:00pm. Names will be drawn for prizes in the order the prizes are pictured below. Winners will be contacted by email and arrangements will be made to receive your prizes. You can win more than once, so the more entries, the better :)

1 entry-$3
2 entries-$5
5 entries-$10
11 entries-$20
27 entries-$50
55 entries-$100


Please know that I hate asking for anything, but here we are at the end of our journey. We are leaving to go get our baby boy-the one that God hand picked for us. How incredible is that? You may or may not know that Brian and I have struggled with infertility for several years now and I could never understand why. I still don't understand completely, but what I do understand is that our God is almighty and He has a plan for us. He has provided every step of the way. We are going to rescue one of His orphans. I can't wait to bring him home-for him to feel the tenderness of a kiss from his mommy and the joy of a piggyback ride from his daddy. Please, if you can, donate, share, pray.


(Sorry about the pics. I had to take them with my phone)
$50 gift card to Target


$50 gift card to Best Buy



Father's Day Package- includes a portable grill (the box is a little beat up, but the grill is new) along with a $50 gift card to Lowes,  2 coupons for $10 off a purchase of $25 at Dick's Sporting Goods, and the oversized camping chair pictured below



this oversized camping chair is part of the father's day package pictured above


Thirty-One purse, pouch and key ring (I want this one for myself!) donated by Michelle Frye
Interested in other Thirty-One products? Contact Michelle.




These beautiful prints are by local artist Elaina Herderlite. The giveaway is for all 3 prints. Check out her etsy shop for more of her work.



My mother in law made these beautiful baby blankets and these pictures do not do them justice. There are 2 available in pink and 1 in blue. 3 winners will be chosen and receive one blanket apiece.

Picnic basket donated by Hope Second Advent Christian Church-stuffed full with the following items: bottled water, sprite, candle, wet wipes, crackers, stationary, crossword puzzle, and 2 flashlights!


 Bob Timberlake print-is number 961 of only 1,000


6 coupons for free Pizza Hut personal pan pizzas. 2 coupons are marked for Concord stores, the other 4 are not marked and can be used anywhere.

Don't forget to leave a comment so I can enter you for one of these great prizes! Thanks again!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

SDA Appointment!

Today was the day! We got our appointment with the State Department of Adoptions in Quinton's country. Our appointment is on June 15th @ 11:00. They are 7 hours ahead of  is 4:00 am Eastern Daylight Time. We are encouraged to travel 3 days before our appointment in order to give ourselves plenty of time and avoid missing our appointment due to any delays for whatever reason. So, we will be leaving in less than 2 weeks! There is so much to do between now and then. I'm feeling a little overwhelmed right now, but God has been so faithful thus far and I know that He will see us through. As always-thank you for your support. It means the world to us :)

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Updates-We Should Be Traveling Soon!

So, a lot has happened since my last entry. Unfortunately between what feels like a million IEP meetings, lesson plans and life in general, there has not been enough time in the day to write. All excuses aside though, here's where we are: After the UPS man delivered our rejected papers, Brian's sergeant graciously allowed him the day off and we got in the car and took a road trip to Raleigh to get the papers corrected. We were in and out of the office in about an hour and on our way to FedEx to send our dossier off. We did mail a few papers for another family, but altogether it weighed almost 2 pounds! Anybody want to know how much it costs to priority mail some papers across the world? $167! So, we mailed our papers and they arrived safely 5 days later (thanks to a lovely 2 day delay for a holiday). We were submitted on May 12th and are now waiting on an appointment with the SDA in Quinton's country. Just yesterday, 2 families who submitted the same day as us received their appointment date, so we should not be far behind. Their appointments are on June 9th. Even if we do not receive a date until next week, we should be there by mid-June. I sat and watched another family's homecoming video today and just balled. I am still in awe that God has called us across the world to rescue one of His orphans. I feel so incredibly honored to be able to be His hands and feet. I cannot thank everyone enough for all of the love and support from our church, friends, and family. We have been incredibly blessed. There is an amazing story about how we came about adopting Quinton. It is too long for today, but I hope to share it soon. All I can say is that God had His hand in it all. We are lacking somewhere around $6500 give or take a bit, but we will get there. God has provided every bit we have needed thus far and He will see us through. Thanks again (and a huge shout out to Leah Hardwick, Hope Church of Charlotte, our family, and the Jarvis'-we love you guys!). Hopefully next time I blog, it will be to share our travel date :)

Friday, April 29, 2011

Great News!

I was so excited yesterday when the UPS truck pulled up. I ran outside and all but tackled the poor delivery man. I told him thank you like 1,000 times and told him that he had made my day. Then I walked inside and opened the packet. There it was, sitting on top of all of our documents- a rejection letter. They had rejected 3 of our documents :( The easiest way to explain it is that they just needed some more documentation. I was off for spring break and Brian had a wonderfully supportive sergeant on duty who told him to take the day off and drive up to Raleigh. So, that is what we did today. We drove up to Raliegh (left the house at 5:30 am) and had them redo our 3 rejected papers. Then we went straight to the Fedex store and sent them on their way. They were picked up today and should arrive at the unmentionable country next Thursday. Our stateside helper, Brigitte, who has been amazing told me that we should be fine with getting in before the SDA dismantles as long as we are submitted before the June 12th date. So now we wait. There is nothing left to do. It is out of our hands. I can still, however obsessively track my papers every half hour from now until Thursday though ;) Most likely, we are looking at about 6 weeks before we travel! That is not long at all and it could be even earlier. We will just have to see. Thanks for all of your donations and prayers!

Friday, April 22, 2011

Time Crunch-Please Pray!

Well, the president of Quinton's country signed a decree to dismantle the SDA (the ministry that processes adoptions). They will continue to hear cases until at least June 12th. We were hoping to have our dossier (mound of official paperwork) sent to his country this week, but we had several hold-ups. We faxed our papers to our parent liaison, fully anticipating for her to say that they were all approved and we could send them as soon as they came back from Raleigh. Let's just say it was not that simple. Her response lead to me nearly having an emotional meltdown in the middle of the grocery store. An email popped up on my phone and stupidly, in the middle of the grocery store, I read it. It was our liaison and she wanted our homestudy changed! This would take time and money to update our homestudy. I was devastated because it was vital that we get our papers shipped right away. There is about a 6 week timeline from the time we send our dossier to the time we get and SDA appointment. As of today that puts us at June 3rd! Waaaayyy to close for comfort :( Brian took the day off work and had some of our documents redone instead of having our homestudy updated and we overnighted them to Raleigh. The changes were so stupid! We had to have our home ownership papers changed from saying "2 story home" to 1 and a half story home" and we had to have a medical document changed from "atopic dermatitis to eczema-they are the same condition! Ugh) Unfortunately we won't get them back until next week, and that will put us right up to that June deadline. This is where you all come in. Please, please, please pray that our documents will be accepted and that they will arrive in time for us to get a court date with the SDA. We want our baby home! If we don't get in with the SDA it could significantly delay our process. We are talking about redoing paperwork that will likely expire as they rebuild a new adoption ministry from the ground up, more money to have the papers re-apostilled, and worst of all, more time Quinton has to be without a mommy and daddy :( We love him so much and my heart absolutely aches to get him here. God has provided for us every step of the way and we know He is with us now. He can make this happen. Thoughts and prayers are greatly appreciated.